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You Better Watch Out!

It came not so softly in the night.

A little extra tired, maybe, from over-obligating myself, I was awakened around 4 am for the usual trip to the bathroom.

No big deal.

But something was off. Once in the bathroom, my hands started to tingle as if I had been hyperventilating. Hmmm. Better breathe into my cupped hands. But I was not hyperventilating.

The tingling spreads all over my body, and – was that sweat on my brow?

Okay. This is not going down well. I was starting not feel good. No. I was beginning to feel very bad.

Was this going to turn into diarrhea, or did I need to throw up? Any self-care plan would require movement on my part, and that somehow did not seem an option. My body had become weighed down by some invisible, mighty source of gravitational pull.

Was I going to pass out? I leaned my body away from the cast iron tub, just in case.

Summoning an energy I wasn’t aware I had at the moment, I pulled my long hair back into a ponytail away from my sopping wet scalp. My trembling body was, within a few moments, drenched in sweat.

Shake hands with the flu.

I am so thankful I had gotten my annual flu shot in September. Because of that protection, I did not become a statistic. The third death from the flu in North Carolina was reported that very week.

Fortunately for me, I was able to exit the bathroom without anything else happening, and I safely tucked my ailing carcass back into bed as I listened to strange gurgles rise from my tummy. Next morning, I felt a little beat up and just took things easy.

Flu is not an inconvenience. Flu knocks you down suddenly – and it can kill!

It’s not too late to get protected from the flu.

‘Nuff said.

On to the holidays.!

Being an avoider of intense sweets and gluten is problematic this time of year. During a recent group trip to Williamsburg with my church, I threw caution to the wind during the catered dinners.

I know, I know. I literally wrote the book on this – Toolkit for Wellness – but since I was gluten-free by choice and not by condition, I thought I could ‘cheat’ a bit if I did not get a bad belly.

No bad belly. Yay.

Oh, wait. A few days later, my joints were talking to me like I was suddenly a very old lady. What?

Well. The resulting inflammation, for me, came through the musculoskeletal system.

So, it was time to get right with my body, and it did not take long for the aches and pains to go away. Lesson learned … again. Everything is a choice.

But those of us not wanting sticky-sweet and gluten-y desserts do not have to be relegated to the veggie tray for celebration food. There are options.

How about a crustless apple pie with streusel topping? Satisfies without going over the top. Check this recipe out that I created on-the-fly last week:

CRUST-LESS APPLE PIE WITH STREUSEL TOPPING

Instructions

Pre-heat oven to 350 degrees

Into a large bowl place:

4 large apples, peeled, quartered, cored, and sliced horizontally. My apples were not baking ones, per se: Honey Crisp, Gala, and maybe another new flavor also just labeled Crisp.

4 Tbs. arrowroot powder

Brown sugar- sorry about lack of measurements, I just shook some over the apples; probably ¾ cup or less

Apple pie spice to taste

Stir and toss the apples around to evenly coat with dry ingredients.

Add some leftover cranberry sauce – maybe 1/2 to 2/3 cup – (Recipe for cranberry sauce to follow)

Mix apples and the cranberry sauce well and pour into a greased baking dish – mine was 12 x 8 inches.

In a medium sauté pan on medium heat place:

About one cup chopped nuts – I used walnuts and pecans

½ stick butter

About one cup gluten-free oatmeal, and

¼ – ½ cup brown sugar.

Stir to combine and to brown slowly. When warm and brown, distribute over the top of the apple mixture. Bake at 350 degree about 40 minutes or until evenly browned. I put foil over the top for the last ten minutes so the edges would not burn.

Serve warm or cold with a dollop of Plain Greek Yogurt. It’s great reheated.

In case you have missed previous postings of my cranberry sauce, here’s what I do that is well received every time I prepare it.

CRANBERRY SAUCE PLUS

Instructions

Into a soup pot place:

2 small bags of cranberries

One navel orange, rind at each end discarded. Quarter orange and thinly slice

2 fresh pears – peeled, quartered, cored, and diced

1 cinnamon stick

1 cup sugar

1 cup water

Start cooking on medium heat. Then in a small saucepan place:

One container of fresh raspberries, rinsed

1-2 Tbs. water

1 Tbs. sugar

Gently cook berries on medium heat while stirring. This does not take but a few minutes. When berries start breaking down, place a large mesh strainer over the cooking cranberries, and pour raspberries and juices into strainer, draining into cooking cranberries.

Using a flexible bowl scraper, mash the berries through the strainer. Scrape the berry essence off the back of the strainer and put into the cranberries. This takes a bit of mashing, scraping, mashing, scraping. You will have a mass of seeds and just a little bit of berries left in the strainer which you will discard.

The effort to create the raspberry essence is worth it. The essence adds that certain something to the sauce … all without pesky raspberry seeds.

Stir the cranberry sauce mixture occasionally, helping to pop cranberries on the side of the pot. Gradually reduce heat as the sauce thickens and bubbles more intently. When berries are all popped and things look ‘just right,’ your work is done.

Transfer to serving bowls and/or storage containers to cool. This sauce keeps quite well and can serve as a not-so-sweet spread on toast or in a turkey sandwich.

The edgy tartness of the cranberries is countered by the gentle blunting of the pear and raspberry flavors. The orange slices with rind seem to candy in the juices. Folks who are not partial to cranberry sauce really like this one.

So, you better watch out – get those flu shots, and enjoy some excellent Cranberry Sauce and Crust-less Apple Pie!

Book sales for Toolkit for Caregivers is trending as gifts for family, friends, and neighbors who are facing caregiving or are in a time of caregiving. There could be no more thoughtful gift to give such a person. They don’t need a plate of cookies – they need help.

A recent customer had tears in her eyes as she described her gratitude for her Toolkit for Caregivers gift. Her husband’s Alzheimer’s Disease is worsening and reading her book and implementing the suggestions – especially for the business side and for self-care – has meant the world to her.

Click here to access Toolkit for Caregivers and here to access Toolkit for Wellness, both perfect gifts of hope and help.

Wishing you and yours a safe, healthy, and happy holiday season-

From Deidre who writes and Sheree who makes things beautiful.

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My “Word of the Year” comes to life!

Have you noticed? Christmas pretty much officially starts at Halloween. In so many directions, my holiday season always starts early. Singing in three choirs means, all holiday music practice starts in October. Working with the flower committee at church, means we’re gearing up for Advent decorating even before Thanksgiving arrives – especially this year with Advent starting the first Sunday after Thanksgiving. I was buying a Christmas tree a couple weeks ago to decorate my booth at a Holiday Home and Gift Show.

Point being – it’s almost 2020 and it will be time to soul-search for another Word of the Year.

How are you doing with yours? Have you made it happen? Has your word guided you?

While my overall goals are not changing, my Word of the Year: REACH has spurred me on to keep striving to, “Reach others by sharing ideas with them.”

To that end, a variety of blog posts have been written – a double book published – book signings have happened – my first-ever booth at a show set up and used to spread the word about Toolkit for Caregivers and Toolkit for Wellness – Caregiver Workshops have been booked at the local community college – and today I had my first live interview on TV.

Just being inside WCTI-12 ABC and Fox Eastern Carolina studios, was a thrill. Lauren Arnott and all the staff were so kind and helpful. While, there’s much to learn about being on TV – looking into the camera more being one of them – I’m pleased with the results.

Check it out here:

Whatever your goal, taking consistent tiny steps toward it will add up. The same way we read a book – one word and one page at a time – we can reach our goals.

Speaking of tiny steps. Walking is the best exercise – ever!

After just returning from a tour of Williamsburg and the surrounding historical areas, I have a new body! Really. Nothing I do in aerobics classes has ever left me feeling so trim and tight. We simply walked all over the place – lots and lots! My Fit Bit wearing co-travelers had no trouble racking up their 10K steps.

What this means is, I’m putting on my winter jacket and going for a walk!

Have a blessed Thanksgiving everyone. Did you know, the first original English Thanksgiving ever was not by the Pilgrims. One year prior to Plymouth Rock activities, settlers landed at what became the Berkeley Plantation in Virginia, and they carried out the commandment of the King by dropping to their knees to say a prayer of thanksgiving for their safe passage to the New World.

Winner of last weekend’s caregiver package!

If you are looking for a gift of “hope and help,” a copy of Toolkit for Wellness could help someone start the New Year off right, and a copy of Toolkit for Caregivers could give a friend, family member, or yourself with a lifeline of solid information.

Use this link to get both of them on Amazon HERE.

In health-

Deidre

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And Now – The Unknown Pumpkin! (Applause)

Let’s be grateful for pumpkin!

How many people are you serving at dinner – or breakfast? As an empty nester, I used to think cooking for just two called for making substantial quantity adjustments. Geez. Try cooking for one.

I can well understand why single people grab prepackaged one-serving meals.

So far, I have resisted the temptation. If keeping a happy belly is high on your list as it is mine, prefab food fails on so many levels. In addition to the endless list of additives and other unidentifiable ingredients, most packaged food is also awash in gluten.

I am left trying to prepare smaller quantities and/or eat the same thing once or twice a day – perhaps disguised as something else – until the leftovers are gone.

So, when pumpkin was calling me like a siren from the deep, I knew I needed something versatile.

Something I could dress up – or down – according to my need.

Not a pie – not a cake – not a pudding … 

Something that would be nourishing and possibly sport additional protein. Hmmm …

Inspired by the Food Channel cook off chefs who grab a little of this and that, I set to work.

The result was – not a pie, not a cake, not a pudding … It was perfect and served as breakfast more than once. When it wasn’t breakfast, I decorated a square of it with a dollop of pudding and called it dessert.

I was going to remake this using more accurate measurements, but have not had the time as preparations for the local Holiday Gift Show have been all consuming. My booth will be beautiful and will feature bookmark Christmas tree ornaments!

So, here it is: my no-name pumpkin thing concept recipe.

Pumpkin Bake That Looks Like Breakfast – Unless It’s Dessert

Ingredients

6 eggs

½ cup of Half and Half … Or three good splashes or so

Vanilla

Cinnamon

Pumpkin Pie Spice

Salt

3 Tbs. melted butter – I measured this … shock!

Maple syrup/brown sugar – Quantity is a little tricky, here. I’d say 1/4 to 1/3 cup of brown sugar and a splash of maple syrup. This is not meant to be sweet, but to maintain a delicate balance between sweet and not dominating the pumpkin flavor.

½ – ¾ cup Almond flour

3 Tbs Collagen hydrolysate

½ can Pumpkin

½ cup unsweetened coconut flakes

Method

Grab a large mixing bowl and an immersion blender.

Add all the ingredients, blending to combine well.

Bake 350 degrees in a greased square pan for 40 minutes/until a knife comes out clean when tested in the center.This pumpkin bake checked all the boxes for versatility, flavor, protein richness through the eggs and collagen, and provided much needed pumpkin factor without a lot of sugar.

I could see making this for a crowd by using the full can of pumpkin, ramping up the other ingredients, and using an oblong baking dish. If you are fortunate enough to have family in for Thanksgiving, you could nibble on this all day while cooking the holiday dinner.

How’s your gratitude journal doing? You don’t have to have a journal dedicated to gratitude. Keep it simple. Jot a thought or two down each day on your calendar. My daily planner has an abundance of room in addition to the space for appointments and goals.

How about starting today? From now until Thanksgiving – a couple things each day that fill our hearts with gratitude – right there on your calendar or planner.

Today: I loved my short walk to the lake and the feel of fall sunshine on my face. I am so grateful for eyes to see the leaves of my dogwood trees turn this amazing shade of red.

How about you?

In health and gratitude-

Deidre

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If It’s Tuesday, It Must Be Brussel Sprouts!

Did you grow up with your mom disguising Brussels sprouts under an ocean of Velveeta cheese sauce? Haven’t had Brussels sprout since then, right?

Well, those darling orbs of cruciferous goodness are making a comeback. Stylish restaurants are spotlighting their unique versions – sans Velveeta cheese sauce – and are delighting their patrons.

kOHLRABI

Before sharing recipes, let’s get acquainted with this intriguing mini cabbage.

Some of the best summations I have found for these cruciferous vegetables calls them “Super Veggies,” as well as other equally positive descriptions. This ancient family of vegetables, which can be found all over the world, include:

  1. Arugula
  2. Bok Choy
  3. Broccoli
  4. Brussels Sprouts
  5. Cabbage
  6. Cauliflower
  7. Collard Greens
  8. Kale
  9. Kohlrabi
  10. Maca
  11. Mizuna
  12. Mustard Greens
  13. Radish
  14. Rutabaga
  15. Turnip
  16. Watercress

Since even before 4000 BC, these foods from the Brassicaceae family have been used, not only as food, but also for their curative properties.

Some of the benefits of cruciferous vegetables:

  1. Contain cancer-fighting compounds
  2. Reduce inflammation
  3. Regulate blood sugar
  4. Promote weight loss
  5. Enhance heart health
  6. Promote Estrogen balance

The benefit that stands out for me is the reduction of inflammation. As I often remind readers, inflammation is the cornerstone for all disease. Curb inflammation and you’ll go a long way in preventing disease processes.

The blood sugar regulation and weight loss benefits are largely due to the high-fiber content of cruciferous vegetables. Also, all these vegetables have high values in vitamin C and K, as well as many necessary minerals. It’s not as common to find these types of beneficial fatty acids outside of fish, meats, and nuts. Anytime we can consume them, it’s a good thing.

The only downside to using them in your diet is there can be an issue with flatulence. That’s medical jargon for gas.  We are advised to eat only one or two servings of these vegetables a day if gas is an issue.

Having said that, Brussels sprouts don’t bother me so much at all; whereas, cabbage is another story. Individual differences abound.

Enough of the science of Brussels sprouts and other cruciferous vegetables, let’s get on with the story.

You know how, when you are on vacation and are in different towns, states, or countries, you generally want to eat at local establishments? Forget chain restaurants; those you can get at home, right?

One exception for me is Bonefish Grill. We do not have one anywhere near my town; so, when I vacation to Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, at least one trip to Bonefish Grill is going to happen. That was the case recently.

My friend ordered a side of their highly touted Brussels sprouts to go with her oysters. Her taste buds were doing a happy dance after the first bite. Already a lover of Myrtle Beach’s T-Bonz Restaurant Flash-Fried Brussels sprouts, I was intrigued.

Fortunately for me, there were two sprouts left over from my friend’s dinner, so I did the only right thing possible – I ate them.

Oh, my…

We plied our waiter for as much recipe information as possible; but I’m sure he was sworn to secrecy. We could correctly identify the lemon element, and he very vaguely described some kind of sauce they served to bind everything. I could tell there were other ingredients though. They were on the tip of my taste buds …

Well, while I’m still Googling knock-off recipes for Bonefish Grill Brussels sprouts, I did manage to cobble together a decent concoction worthy of sharing – so here it is:

Brussels Sprouts A La Bonefish Grill 1.0

Preheat oven to 400 degrees.

Lightly oil baking dish – I used a 12-inch cast iron pan

20 Brussels sprouts- smaller ones are best, washed, trimmed, and cut in half

½ cup cubed ham

1/3 cup mayo

3 Tbs. finely diced onion – I used Vidalia, but an online recipe used the whites of three green onions

½ cup sauerkraut, drained

½ cup olive oil

1 Tbs. lemon juice

Zest of one small lemon

1 clove garlic, minced

2 tsp. dried basil

Fresh ground black pepper to taste

Parmesan/Asiago cheese to thinly shave on top of the prepared and dressed Brussels sprouts in the baking dish.

Prepare Brussels sprouts and place in large bowl with half of the olive oil. Toss to coat evenly.

In a small bowl, combine the remaining ingredients stirring often.

Pour sauce over Brussels sprouts, toss to coat evenly. Transfer to baking dish.

Sprinkle shaved Parmesan/Asiago cheese over the top.

Bake about 30 minutes or until browned on top.

Enjoy.

This could be a one course meal.

Is this just like Bonefish’s famed side dish? Well no, it’s tantalizingly close.

Are you tweaking your recipes to a healthier bent for the coming holidays? Let me know what you are doing to make taste bud magic with less sugar and healthier ingredients in the comments section below.

In Health-

Deidre

Taming The Blueberry Muffin

Are you already battling holiday dessert binging? Those five-ten pounds around the waist from December indulgences are just sprinkles on the cake of sugar-laden devils disguised as fall treats, Halloween treats, and Thanksgiving must-haves already expanding our middles.

Just like clockwork, recipes are starting to populate my Facebook feed. It starts with cheers for all things pumpkin, and rapidly morphs into a parade of dazzling desserts – each one more tempting than the last. The thicker the cream cheese frosting drizzled with caramel, the better.

One specific recipe a friend shared on her Facebook feed, came from a site with the word “healthy” in it. Get this. The recipe sported 2 cups of sugar.

Not healthy, dear friends. Not healthy.

Better habits start with an environment that supports those habits.

There’s no effort to walking more if you are at the beach, when the sand beckons walkers of every ability, with an endless expanse of wave-lapped wonder.

There’s no effort to refrain from drinking sugary sodas if there are none to be found in your kitchen. Make your biggest decision reflect what flavor of bubbly water you want to drink.

Are there to be no muffins, cakes, puddings, or desserts ever again?

Certainly not!

My goals with treats – treats are not daily happenings – is to make sure they have as many healthy ingredients as possible in them; make portions naturally smaller, and to share most of the treat with others so I will not be tempted to “treat” myself every day – because I deserve it, right?

There is also a carb lure come cooler temperatures – even before Facebook – somehow those summer salads give way to baked squash, potatoes, hot soups, and all those baked confections featured on the covers of magazines such as Sunset and Southern Living.

Case in point.

I do love a good blueberry muffin, but even using my favorite gluten-free Krusteaz box mix still seems more indulgent than necessary. Gluten-free does not equal guiltlessly-good-for-you.

Enter my ramped-up, mini-muffins born of a gluten-free box mix. These babies have the bonus of:

1) Collagen powder full of every amino acid – thus making a high-protein addition. Learn more about collagen HERE

2) Unsweetened-but-naturally-sweet shredded coconut is:

  • High in fiber to keep you feeling full longer and for easy digestion (see my article on fiber HERE)
  • A good source of minerals
  • High in fat BUT it’s from lauric acid, which is associated with good cholesterol

Learn more about coconut HERE and HERE:

3) Walnuts – which are an amazing source of Omega 3 fatty acids and fiber. Learn more about walnuts HERE:

So, let’s get cooking by starting with a mix – making it better, and controlling portion size.

Almost Homemade Gluten-Free Blueberry Muffin Mix

Preheat oven to 400 degrees or 375 degrees Convection

Grease 24 count mini-muffin pan

1 box Krusteaz Gluten Free Blueberry Muffin Mix

Blend in:

1 large handful of unsweetened shredded coconut – approximately ½ cup

1 large handful of pan-toasted walnuts (about five minutes in sauté pan, stirred frequently to avoid burning) broken up into small pieces- approximately ½ cup

Zest of 1 medium lemon

2-3 Tablespoons of Hydrolysate Collagen Powder

Follow package directions, adding:

¼ cup water

1/3 cup melted butter

3 eggs

I also add the juice of ½ of the lemon

Stir enough to incorporate all ingredients.

Fold in the rinsed blueberries provided in the mix

Spoon the batter into the prepared muffin pan and bake 11-13 minutes for mini-muffins. Use a toothpick to check for doneness.

Let muffins cool in the pan for two minutes, then loosen each from its spot and tilt in place to finish cooling. Gluten-free baked goods can get “steamed up” if left in place without air to circulate around them during cooling.

Freeze a dozen. Give six to your neighbor. Eat six over a few days.

Enjoy your treats!

In health-

Deidre

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Suffering In Silence

She’s been taking care of her aunt for fifteen months non-stop. No relief. Getting tired and worn down. Clueless there might be another way, she believes this is what she’s supposed to be doing.

As a transplant to a new town, she’s not developed a network of friends or resources. She just soldiers on, unaware she’s becoming burned out.

That’s a true story.

Every time I speak with someone about the growing crisis concerning caregivers of loved ones at home, I hear a new story that just fires up my commitment to help.

Did you know that 10,000 people A DAY are becoming eligible for Medicare? That’s right. Hospice Foundation of America has labeled this phenomenon the new “Silver Tsunami.”

This is all happening over the backdrop of an ever-increasing number of long-term degenerative diseases in our population – coupled with the trend of people wanting to stay at home longer – even with mounting medical needs.

Those who are a part of this Silver Tsunami will care for someone else, AND require being cared for!

Imagine George and Martha, both in their sixties, looking forward to a retirement life of travel, but who are currently taking care of Martha’s mother, who is 87 years old.

Within five years, Martha’s mom passes away; but Martha has a stroke, leaving her with difficulty walking and needing assistance with self-care. Two of their three children live out-of-state, so much of the caregiver help comes from their daughter and husband, George.

And so it goes.

I discussed these things recently with a group of volunteer Stephen Ministers at a local church. They are finding  the ranks of caregivers of loved ones at home to be increasing, with the need to counsel and emotionally walk with caregivers on that end-of-life journey – critical.

Two components in my new, double-book, Toolkit for Caregivers with the bonus, Love Lives Here – Toolkit for Caregiver Survival, greatly serve families of every age in making those inevitable life transitions go more smoothly.

Talking Points for “The Conversation” will help families – young and old – with a list of Loving Considerations appropriate for every stage of life. You see, this Silver Tsunami will touch almost every household in America when you consider the multi-generational effect of family life changes – as depicted by the story of George and Martha.

While wishes, hopes, and desires will evolve over time, starting The Conversation early will help set the framework and create the habit for loving, frank, family conversations.

The Business Side of Dying Checklist will help survivors navigate the business issues that invade emotional grieving space after someone dies. If Loving Considerations have been made during the time of The Conversation, then checking off these business items should not be traumatic for those doing them.

Caregiver Workshops, introducing basic patient care skills and caregiver issues, are being planned to start in Eastern North Carolina in the coming months. In those workshops, participants will receive printed handouts covering The Conversation and The Business Side of Dying Checklist along with the already downloadable Skills Packet that comes with every purchase of Toolkit for Caregivers.Nationally, my books are always available online HERE.

The Next Chapter Book and Art Store

In ENC, books are also available at The Next Chapter Book and Art Store, South Front Street, around the corner from Captain Ratty’s, in downtown New Bern. I will be outside of The Next Chapter on Saturday, October 12 for Mum Fest, and I will also have a booth at The Holiday Gift Show, at the New Bern Convention Center November 15-16.

As I counseled those Stephen Ministers, caregiver emotions can be such a jumbled mess and can catch the unsuspecting caregiver off guard when unprepared. When the time of caregiving is over, caregiver grief also has aspects that can baffle and torment.

My philosophy of preparation being a key tool in learning, doing, or experiencing any thing in life is proving so true for caregivers and families everywhere.

Loving considerations help everyone. Use those loving considerations to drive your preparations for life transitions now.

Share the caregiver book that can help everyone by clicking HERE to purchase or by sharing this post with others.

In health-

Deidre

PS- I’m seeing a lot of Facebook posts about tantalizing fall recipes. Unfortunately, they all have a common theme of a truckload of sugar. I’ll be sharing some yummy, good-for-you recipes that will have your taste buds doing a happy dance next time.

Fiber, Poo, and You!

It’s all about striking a balance!

There’s always a new cliff to jump off. We are hounded by diet philosophy mongers all the time. New buzz words rain down on us until we are buried under an avalanche of do this, do that.

Keto. Whole grain goodness. Intermittent fasting. Vegan. Grass fed. Free range. Organic. Non-GMO. Whole 30. Low carb. Sugar free. Low fat. Non-dairy. Gluten free. Aaaahhhh!

I just want to feel good, keep excess pounds off, maintain a stable blood sugar, keep my bones strong and muscles functioning, avoid poisonous food or activities to allow my body to be naturally disease free, and … something else to be mentioned in a minute.

That’s why I avoided labeling my approach to eating in Toolkit for Wellness as anything other than anti-inflammatory. Labels can be problematic.

It’s just not food either. We are a complex whole. Deprivations or excesses in one area of our life puts everything else out of kilter.

Added to the fact that none of us has ever been this old before …

What worked in our thirties might not work for us in our forties – etc., etc.

Therefore, we seem to always be adjusting to make things balance out. Never a dull moment. Every day sees us coping with physical changes we may not know are even happening.

Which brings me back to my other goal. Usually commercial ads about this are aimed just at the senior sector of our population; but this issue traverses all age categories. It’s something that even concerned my high school students. What is it?

Regularity. Constipation.

Poo.

It’s a topic that’s vital even to infants (I remember my constipated babies – what anguish for everyone) and to everyone, every day – for as long as we live.

Again, it’s a complex topic. The standard approach is:

  1. Drink enough fluids
  2. Get enough exercise
  3. Eat enough fiber
  4. Control stress (that’s my addition)

Chronic constipation can set us up for hemorrhoids, irritable bowel disease, and colon cancer. Also makes for feelings of discomfort and general malaise. Not fun.

There are even issues beyond constipation – this is going to get a little graphic, here – there are issues about the quality or texture of the Bowel Movement (BM).

Let’s delve into this dinner-table-taboo topic with the Bristol Stool Chart

It is possible to be as regular as clockwork, but terribly constipated.

Where are you on this scale?

After going gluten-free and restricting starchy carbs for several years – and feeling so much better – I seemed to enter a new phase of regularity with constipated results. (Talk about airing dirty laundry … but folks, I’m doing this so we can learn).

Were the several years of caregiver stress – followed by widowhood – a factor? Certainly.

But this was no way to live. What could I do? Join the Metamucil-for-lunch bunch? Nooooooo!

After much trial and error, the results are in! LOL

As I sought to restore balance within my body, I have come to soften some of my previous approaches:

  • Gluten-free remains a priority (helps me avoid most sweets at gatherings and unnecessary bread-y starch)
  • I am opening the door to some legumes in regular consumption of hummus and chili beans
  • Eating some 5% fat, plain Greek Yogurt each day, which feeds the microbiome in my gut
  • Eating the whole grain goodness of quinoa – a gluten-free ancient grain that is so versatile hot or cold, sweet/savory/or plain
  • Sauteed, unbreaded okra slices, seasoned with Montreal Steak Seasoning, are a frequent fare and will “cure what ails you”
  • Eating Brussels sprouts year round
  • Modifying my super-low-carb approach by adding a slice of whole-grain, gluten-free bread to my morning or lunch open-faced sandwich (Sam’s brand found at Walmart on the top shelf of their bread isle is my absolute favorite)

The final improvement has come – for me – through the additional, though small, addition of starchy carbs. My research today is showing, as well, that the avocado mash on my morning or lunch time toast is boosting helpful fiber, as well.

So, let’s look at fiber. Most people are getting about half what’s needed. Women should be getting 25 grams of fiber a day and men should be getting 38 grams.

Everything you ever want to know about fiber can be found HERE and HERE!

As a timesaver, let me summarize:

Fiber is the part of food not broken down or absorbed during its journey through the digestive system.

There are two types of fiber categories: soluble and insoluble.

Soluble Fiber

Soluble fiber binds with fatty acids and helps flush them out of the body – thus lowering bad cholesterol – and blends with water forming a gel-like substance in the gut, which helps lower blood sugar spikes.

Insoluble Fiber

Insoluble fiber helps to act as a bulking agent that speeds the passage of waste.

Together, both kinds of fiber slow digestion so that the sugar/glucose from food is absorbed more slowly – thus stabilizing blood sugars.

It’s the difference between eating a piece of candy or eating an equal amount of sugar/glucose in a fiber-filled raw apple. The candy will cause swings in blood sugar as the glucose is rapidly absorbed, insulin is needed, and blood sugar drops as insulin’s effect occurs. The apple will cause a slight rise in blood sugar over time because the fiber slows down the sugar/glucose absorption and the insulin demands are much lower.

Candy vs apple

Then, there are different actions that fiber can take.

Some soluble fibers are fermentable and serve as fuel for the (good) bacteria in our gut. The over 100 trillion bacteria found mostly in the large intestine are ground-zero for zillions of chemical, hormonal, and nerve reactions and communications happening in the body. Research is showing that dysbiosis in the microbiome of our gut (the good bacteria) is resulting in or is a contributing factor to auto-immune disease and much more. Feeding these friendly warriors is very important to good health.

Fermentable fibers are found in beans and legumes. The byproduct of this fermentation is gas. Great.

Then there’s viscous fiber that forms a gel when blended with water. This gel slows down the digestive process which allows for a feeling of fullness and satiety for longer periods.

Think chia seeds in water. Think okra.

This viscus/soluble fiber is also found in legumes, asparagus, Brussels sprouts, oats, and flax. Just a tablespoon of chia seeds in water and flavored – or not – with a dab of honey will turn into a gelatinous treat that will hold you all night and “do your body good.”

Many of you may not have heard of this next one: Resistant starch. Used to be that I’d just shut the door at any idea of consuming starch. Starch is the main carbohydrate in the diet. Think potatoes, foods made with flour, and rice.

Resistant starch is a carbohydrate that functions like fermentable fiber in the gut. Have I grabbed your attention yet?

Yes. Under the right conditions, this starch (boo!) resists digestion and passes through the digestive system unchanged (yay).

Resistant starch improves digestive health; improves insulin sensitivity; lowers blood sugar; and helps to decrease appetite.

Resistant starches can be found in:

  • Green bananas (sure)
  • Legumes (think pinto beans…and gas)
  • Cashews (yay!)
  • Raw oats (Trail mix?)

…and…drum roll…

  • Cooled cooked white potatoes and white rice!

What? Yes! Think cold potato salad. Think white rice in salad. Heck- think sticky rice in nori rolls!

Ah, but remember the balance.

Deidre from Foodtalk4you is NOT saying to sit down to a bowl of potato salad.

What I am saying is that there are options that should be used to strike a balance, and that having a 3 or for 4 Bristol Stool result in the bathroom can be a measuring factor for that balance.

‘nuf said

In health-

Deidre

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Tidying Up or Who Moved My Quinoa?

Where’s your clutter? Over time, mine is relegated to the closets and drawers – out of sight to the casual observer.

Fibber McGee and Molly

My mom used to tell me about an old radio show called Fibber McGee and Molly. Apparently, they had a hall closet that was dangerous to open; for when it was opened, its contents spilled out onto the hapless person who had opened the door.

While not quite that bad, my two pantry closets were becoming unhandy to use – clutter and disorganization reigned supreme – the quick grab always deteriorated into major detective work.

I dreaded looking for ingredients. Where was that quinoa? Didn’t I buy some spicy mustard not long ago?

Closet and drawer clean outs are usually done in January at my house. Start the year off organized and all that. Somehow that cold winter day project slipped past me this year.

But really, where was that quinoa? I needed it for a new recipe I was trying out this morning – that recipe is to follow, by the way.

Well, enough was enough. I was in control of this mess, and I was going to fix it – NOW!

Marie Kondo

Following some of Marie Kondo’s advice in her amazing book, the life-changing magic of tidying up, I emptied most of the two offending cupboards. Voila – found the quinoa and oatmeal for the recipe!

While the grains were simmering, I organized, kept what had nutritional meaning to me, and threw out what was either out of date or no longer was a part of my culinary repertoire. Kondo followers will understand. If you are new to her philosophy, I studied each item to evaluate its relevance in my eating habits – if it had a positive meaning to current menu goals, it stayed; otherwise, it was tossed.

The same happened to my drawer for kitchen towels and aprons. I am giving away as many as I kept.

Such a liberating feeling. I’m rewarded every time the drawer is opened or when I need an ingredient from the pantry.

Decluttering and organizing not only what we see walking through a home, but also what we see when using a home – opening closets and drawers – generates positive energy … and … don’t we all need that?

On to that quinoa …

Once every week, our paper features a food section that compliments all of the week’s store ads just coming out.

At times, the featured food columnist’s article is laughable. There are ingredients that are often unpronounceable and virtually unobtainable in the average grocery store. Just because the author enjoyed a marvelous meal in an obscure little bistro in a remote corner of some exotic destination that I can’t afford to visit, doesn’t mean I should be able to duplicate it here in the States – or even want to.

But today, Ari LeVaux (see … cool name) wrote about a whole grain dish that can easily be a part of a wonderful change-of-pace for breakfast or become a savory side dish to dinner.

Chokecherry

He did have to throw in syrup options that were amusing: syrup from rhubarbs, cherries, or chokecherries. Sure. I’ll just grab that chokecherry syrup right out of my clean pantry.

Not.

Many folks enjoy a daily bowl of oatmeal each morning. I tried that routine once and my joints were adversely affected, strangely enough, but I’m willing to have a few bites now and then.

When other grains or seeds are simmered together with oatmeal, one is tippy-toeing into the world of gruel.

Gruel conjures up images of cold, stone orphanages in old England, a la Jane Eyre. Gruel is actually on the watery side. After all, the head mistress squeezes those schillings for all they are worth.

So, as Ari writes, this recipe is on the thick side of porridge and he has termed it to be a “potage” in hopes that people will at least keep reading and not head to the sports section.

Enough. Let’s get to this fun recipe of thick gruel, porridge, potage, pottage, or whatever you want to call it. There are four main ingredients plus water and a pinch of salt. Easy peasy – just don’t burn the gruel.

Potage with Berries

1 cup steel-cut oats (mine were just regular, gluten-free oats)

1 cup quinoa – Ari prefers red quinoa for the color, I used black

Raw. shelled hemp seeds

4 cups water

1 tablespoon untoasted sesame seeds

1 tablespoon raw, shelled hemp seeds – I used hemp seed hearts

Pinch of salt

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Use a heavy-bottomed pot. Throw all the ingredients in and bring to a boil – lid off. After it comes to a boil, reduce heat to simmer, and simmer for 20 minutes. If the water is gone during initial cooking, add a bit more.

Test the grains after 20 minutes – they should be pleasantly chewy. Reduce to the lowest setting to cook off any remaining water.

Do not over stir BUT do not let the bottom of the pot stick and burn. I stirred once every 5 minutes throughout the entire process.

Turn off the heat and let cool before storing in the refrigerator.

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Greek yogurt

For breakfast: I used a small scoop of “potage” and added strawberries, blueberries, and a dollop of vanilla Greek yogurt. Terrifically tasty and filling.

As a savory side dish to dinner, Ari enjoys it dressed in soy sauce, toasted sesame oil, and green onions. He also likes it with “scape”…there you go again, Ari.

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Hope you enjoy the “potage” and let me know if you’re inspired to clean a closet!

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In health-

Deidre

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Splat!

Have you ever been wound up so tightly – that even slightly relaxing – was found to be impossible?

That feeling. if you let go just a little bit. you may go SPLAT against the wall of life?

Somehow the stressors in life have so overwhelmed you, it was all you could do to keep it together?

Like you are going to splat if you don’t relax – but if you do, which isvirtually impossible – your world without your hyper-vigilance was going to splat anyway?

Very unhealthy.

Face plant.

Been there. Done that.

My nerves were so tight and my emotions were so bottled up that, as I lay on the adjusting table in the chiropractor’s office being treated for (of all things) pulled muscles, any adjustment was impossible. The chiropractor asked me to relax my back. Ha!

“I can’t do it,” I whimpered.

Then the tears started to flow, and I eventually relaxed enough.

That was a few years ago; but recently, a friend of mine was facing a similar situation. Muscles tight, heart racing, and stressful thinking seemingly trying to take her over. Definitely a SPLAT in the making.

Feeling that helpless and hopeless feeling in her text, I called her on the phone, and I instructed my Alexa to “play meditation music.”.Before she could get even more wound up telling me what the matter was, I instructed her to lie down and listen to the music.

Across the miles, she spent several minutes listening to this amazing, calming, gentle music with melodies that evolve into other ones – never disappointing or ending too soon – until calm, peace, and even a comforting sense of trust develops in the listener’s mind and body.

She was amazed when her heart had began to slow down.

Then we talked about breathing.

It’s not a lot of phooey, readers. Just breathe. Listen to the air coming in through your nose. Feel it swirl around in your sinuses and down into your lungs. Feel your chest and belly rise and then fall as you exhale.

It’s call mindfulness. Meditation. Breathing. Whatever you call it, it works. Just be mindful only of your breathing and let the music caress you. If your thoughts stray to something else, that’s fine, just gently guide them back to your breathing and the music.

If you find yourself ready to SPLAT, it’s quite likely a mental/spiritual/physical emergency! Before your symptoms take you out, stop and do the mindful breathing and music, if possible.

Stress kills.

After our call ended, my friend used her phone’s Siri app to find meditation music and she continued her therapy. A short time later, her heart rate was normal and she could face the day.

Our minds are so powerful. We cannot take the stress out of our lives, but we must have and use the tools available to us to respond to and handle that stress in more healthful ways.

That’s why I’ve named my business Toolkits for Health. In my blog, books, and seminars, the goal is to give readers and participants the tools they need to improve their lives through mind/body/spirit health approaches that are easy to do.

Click on the link below to learn more about what I am offering through Toolkits for Health on my new website called DeidreEdwards.com!

Your stress management needs may also call for counseling from an experienced professional. Please do not hesitate to contact a pastor, counselor, doctor, or other health professional for help. Help is there. Even free help. You are not alone.

Since New Year’s Eve, I have been plagued with a blocked and slow draining gland on the upper eyelid of one eye. The treatment – short of surgery – has been twice daily wet, hot eye compresses for four months, and nightly compresses since then. I’ve combined listening to meditation music in a dimly lit room for 10 minutes right before bed as a way to making the compress routine enjoyable.

Guess who is relaxed before bed? Sometimes I ask Alexa to “stop playing in one hour,” so I can sail off to sleep with gentle music.

Mindful breathing can be worked into any routine. Make it work for you. Maybe a session of breathing and meditation music can start your day as well.

To finish the start of my friend’s now calmer morning, I suggested she stand and raise her arms up into the air to silently thank her Creator for the new day, her new calm, and to receive strength, power, and wisdom to live her day in confidence.

Works for me. Worked for her. Tap into these calming and strengthening tools to not only avoid splatting but to face each day with peace.

In health-

Deidre

Summertime – And The Eating Is Easy …

Have this summer’s blazing hot temps redefined how you eat? Experts remind us on the nightly news to stay hydrated, wear loose clothing, stay in the shade while outside, and eat small meals.

Small meals? I hardly want to eat at all! But, truly, sitting down to a big repast is not even appealing.

Use the heat as an opportunity to add a cooling meal of cut up fresh fruit of colorful melons and berries with yogurt.

Explore eating more vegetable protein. I prepare some soy noodles according to package directions then stir in a dollop of my homemade Sweet Basil Pesto (recipe in Toolkit for Wellness) and some fresh mozzarella. A small serving works as dinner along with a side salad of greens.

After a breakfast of eggs cooked with a few sliced black olives, Sweet Basil Pesto, and a large handful of spinach, lunch may be just a half of an avocado to tide me over until a dinner of some baked salmon and a side salad.

An evening of board games and snacks with friends does not have to sabotage your diet. Make the snacks your dinner by offering hummus (recipe HERE) along with sliced vegetables. Use cut up fruit to dip into yogurt. Serve pistachios – my newly discovered go-to nut – for a fun nutritional kick.

Pistachios are a bounty of good news.  Pistachios on Healthline passes on a lot of pistachio facts. I also found in many other sites. In summary, pistachios are an ancient – fruit! – consumed at least 7,000 BC in Asia. They are high in protein; lower in calories than other nuts; high in antioxidants; high in lutein for eye health; help gut bacteria; studies indicate they may help lower cholesterol; are low in the glycemic index which helps maintain steady blood sugar levels, AND in their shelled state, contribute to mindful eating as instead of gobbling up shelled nuts, the process of shelling each morsel slows down consumption and helps to keep track of portion size by seeing a stack of empty shells.

WOW! You have to love these nuts!

So- practice lightening up on the summer foods … It will “do your body good”!

UNDER CONSTRUCTION!

Have you ever lived through a remodeling project? Growth and improvement not only requires time, energy, and a plan, but also brings a certain amount of pain and inconvenience. There is always dust, dirt, new traffic patterns, and making do with a hot plate instead of a stove… you know the drill. Life looks a little different for a while until your dream plans come together.

Well, not only has foodtalk4you been under construction, but I’m also “giving birth” to a business and another website! Thanks to my partner and construction manager, Sheree Alderman at The Sunshine Group, there’s been a lot of tearing down and rebuilding going on.

Our efforts have been centered on making foodtalk4you and my new landing page as user-friendly to readers as possible, and to be more connected and responsive to reader needs.

To that end, much updating has been done behind the scenes to foodtalk4you. It may look the same, but there are some subtle changes that we hope you appreciate. Namely, each post, past and present, will be assigned to one or two categories.

At the left of your computer screen you will notice a list of categories. If you want to peruse gluten free recipes, anti-inflammatory foods, habit building, stress reduction, exercise, or more – all you have to do is click on that category to read those posts.

We hope this new feature will help you navigate to posts that help you the most.

But then there’s the unexpected in renovations as well – read abject horror on my part – as maybe 25% of our readership list evaporated after a behind-the-scenes update process…

#$%&*$@#??!!!! – doesn’t even begin to cover our reaction.

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