What kind of an entrance are you making?
“To what? A meeting?”
Well, let’s start with your day. How are you entering this new day?
“Yawn, well after that first glass of water you told us about, it’s coffee for sure.”
Is your cell phone already in your hands? Are you immediately scrolling for the latest?
Or perhaps that mental reel is still playing in your mind, filling you with stress? You are supplying both sides of the conversation, and the message is full of labels – never good ones.
We can’t make that good first impression entrance to an event, a conversation, or our day if we are pulling from empty or poorly replenished reserves.
With the daily challenges that we are all facing with personal issues – let alone world issues – daily resets are no longer optional for me. How about you?
I will offer two points and a change in perspective for you today.
One. Find a happy place for daily resets.
It could be a park bench on your lunch break. Perhaps the top step going to your front door.
No cell phone.
Listen.
Be aware of what’s around you. Observe. Drop your gaze and mindfully breathe.
Read something that inspires you, directs you to a higher path, and that gives you peace.
Journal. The power of unfiltered brain dumps through journaling is not to be underestimated. Paper, pen and a few minutes of sharing with that page is utterly transformative – and cheap therapy.
Release your cares to the fresh air above, the universe, or your higher power. Our fretting mental reels never solve our problems. Just make yourself open to receiving the answers or guidance for your next steps.
Two. Assume a positive intent in others.
Reading a quote from business executive and former CEO of Pepsi, Indra Nooyi, recently blew me away with its simplicity. She speaks of approaching others:
“When you assume negative intent, you’re angry. If you take away that anger and assume positive intent, you will be amazed.”
She goes on to explain how such an approach changes us – we become more intent on understanding the other person and are listening more carefully to them without being defensive at the onset. This sends a positive message to the other person that will often lead to more constructive, respectful interactions.
A change in perspective:
We’ve all seen those humbling, awe-inspiring images of Earth from space—our small, radiant planet suspended in darkness, wrapped in a thin, fragile atmosphere.
Do those views stir something in you—a sense of love, protectiveness, even responsibility? From that distance, “world peace” begins to feel less like an abstract ideal and more like a shared necessity. Perspective changes everything.
The minutia falls away – of no importance – as the big picture gives us pause.
Taking that same kind of perspective on our own lives can help quiet the worries and negative loops, making space to reset—with more compassion for others and for ourselves.
Find that happy place to regularly give yourself a reset and assume the positive in your daily interactions – now, that’s a good way to make a grand entrance!
Deidre
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