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In The Moment

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How did you like Kim’s Corner last week? Please let us know.

Little did I know, I would be using this new approach the very week I learned about it!

The PEACE and LOVE technique has sped my recovery from a sprained ankle using no ice and no anti-inflammatories! I was walking without a limp just over 24 hours after the injury! Elevation is vital early on and periodically throughout the healing process.

I stopped wearing the Ace bandage after day 4, returning to my normal light compression socks.

A challenge came on Day 10 when embarking on a full day of airplane travel to Hawaii. Because of prolonged sitting and wanting to combat normal swelling that occurs with flying, I returned to an Ace bandage for the flights.

After landing and when we got settled in, my daughter tenderly applied Arnicare Cream to my ankle. The combination of her TLC and the pain relief I got from Arnicare was amazing.

This plant-based cream provides relief for muscle pain, stiffness, and swelling from injuries and bruises. I have been using it almost daily, especially while the flight-induced swelling eased off.

Other than daily movement, while I’m seated, I also draw the alphabet in the air with both feet. These movements help restore full range of motion.

I am a believer! Thank you, Kim!

The heart of this week’s message is inspired by our experiences here in Kona with my daughter, son-in-law, and darling grandson, who will turn 3 years old in April.

As any parent and grandparent knows, the life lessons gleaned from a young child are clear: live in the moment with joy.

This approach is not reserved for toddlers – although, we tend to lose those skills if we are not aware we are letting them go.

Watching the US figure skater, Alysa Liu, exuded pure, unadulterated joy both in her practice warm-ups and during her gold medal winning Olympic performance this week. Alysa was blissfully in the moment, thrilled to be doing what she loved.

I had not seen such pure joy on the face of an adult in such a long time. Everyone watching her Olympic performance felt and shared her joy.

As we absorb the joy from our tropical environment with family, and as we share in my grandson’s exuberance in every experience, we feel such inward peace and healing in areas we didn’t know were broken.

As our last message about love – in this month of love – please take a moment to read the following message from Eric Dane recorded before his passing this week from ALS, HERE.

How he resolutely walked toward the final days of that terrible disease is an inspiration to us all and another reminder to find our joy and to live in the moment with that pure joy.

We remember you Jim Tyler, Dan Logan, Eric Dane, and so many others taken too soon by ALS.

In love and health –

Deidre

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Peace and Love? Groovy, Man!

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Is this a throw-back post about hippies?

No, it’s about a change in a protocol we have all learned well.

WELCOME TO KIM’S CORNER

In our first issue of Kim’s Corner at Foodtalk4you, Physical Therapist Kimberly Attwood, PT, DPT, FDN, will explain something which surprised us during a recent visit to her office.

You may have heard about the RICE method of treating soft tissue injury, such as a sprained ankle.

Well, throw out the RICE to make way for PEACE and LOVE!

Remember, the inflammation that happens with soft tissue injury acts as a defense and cleanup crew to initiate healing by sending immune cells and repair substances to the site, removing pathogens and debris, and setting the stage for tissue regeneration. While prolonged inflammation can hinder recovery, making a balanced response is crucial.

Here’s Kim with information about the better approach for soft tissue injury in the acute phase, 1 – 3 days after injury, and the days that follow:

The latest research shows that treating minor acute injuries with RICE is outdated and potentially detrimental to your overall recovery. 

RICE = Rest, Ice (NSAIDs), Compress, Elevate 

Anti-inflammatories (commonly ibuprofen, naproxen, ice, etc.) are very effective at interrupting the inflammatory process. 

Knowing this relationship, hopefully you can see how anti-inflammatories on board during the first stages of healing could slow down the healing process.  

But wait, it hurts! What should I do about my pain?

Well, this is where the elevation and compression come into play. Being able to keep swelling to a reasonable level will help with the pain that you have during those first few weeks. Keep in mind that pain is a sign from your body, and it’s meant to protect you!

What exactly do PEACE and LOVE mean for me after an injury?  As Physiopedia quotes: “Immediately after a soft tissue injury, do no harm and let PEACE guide your approach.”

PEACE = Protect, Elevate, AVOID anti-inflammatories, Compress, Educate 

P = Protect; give the injured body part a break from strenuous activity. Not complete rest, but don’t go jogging on a freshly sprained ankle! 

E = Elevate; the injured body part needs to be above the level of your heart to help reduce swelling .

A = Avoid anti-inflammatories; stay away from ice and medication that reduces inflammation – let your body do what it is designed to do! 

C = Compression; use an ace wrap or other bandage to help reduce swelling.

E = Educate; ask your favorite physical therapist to teach you about your injury, recovery expectations, and prevention strategies

Then, after the first days have passed, soft tissues need LOVE:

LOVE = Load, optimism, vascularization, exercise 

L = Load; gradually increase your activities and weight bearing  

O = Optimism; A positive mindset can carry you a long way in your recovery 

V = Vascularization; participate in low impact cardiovascular exercises to encourage blood flow 

E = Exercise; Go see your favorite physical therapist to learn how to best restore motion, strength, endurance and balance

While diving into the anti-inflammatories and ice packs is what we have all learned previously, Kim reports that the PEACE and LOVE methods are shortening healing times!

Here’s an excellent video that recaps these concepts.

Kim may be reached at kimberly.attwood@ivyrehab.com for your questions or concerns.

In health –
Deidre

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Faces of Love and Peace

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Faces of Love and Peace

February is the month of love, and we will be exploring some very different variations on that theme in the coming weeks at foodtalk4you!

Love and Peace just go together, don’t they?

When we are at peace from within, we naturally reach out in love to others and to ourselves.

Our community felt deeply blessed to witness the monks during their recent Walk of Peace through our state. At a time when the news seemed to grow heavier by the moment, and our spirits were sinking, this quiet band of brothers moved through our shared space as a living testament to another way.

The image of them stays with me—shaping a quieter presence within myself and a renewed determination to walk each day with intention, toward peace, and toward being a light for others.

So, how am I doing that?

True confession. I had succumbed to the siren call of convenience, when I used liquid pods in my dishwasher.

The pods’ plastic wrap melts in the hot water, releasing the contents to wash the dishes and provide the sparkle we all love from a clean rinse.

Until I noticed a mysterious ‘dust’ on the back of my plates coming straight out of the dishwasher!

Enter micro and nano plastics …

There is no minimum daily requirement for ingesting plastics. None. No level of consumption or absorption is associated with good health.

Plastic is forever! It does not return to the earth as some kind of compost … it breaks down to particle sizes smaller than dust.

We breathe it. We eat it. We absorb it.

Nano plastics cross defensive barrier systems in our body such as our skin and the lining of our intestines. They are now found in our blood, tissue, and organs.

Consider this quote from the NIH dated January 23, 2024: “The researchers found that, on average, a liter of bottled water included about 240,000 tiny pieces of plastic. About 90% of these plastic fragments were nanoplastics.” 

Many people believe that drinking 64 ounces of water a day from single-use plastic bottles is good for their health—but is it? Doing so can result in an estimated 480,000 plastic particles entering the body.

Awareness comes first. We cannot undo what we have done, we just take our next steps forward doing better.

While we just had one pod to eliminate at our house, many people are using pods in the laundry as well.

Did you know that our skin is our largest organ? It’s an organ of absorption! Plastic dust from laundry pods gets trapped in the fabric of clothes we wear!

There will be more about finding ways to eliminate plastics from our lives in future posts.

Now, we have a special announcement!

Foodtalk4you would like to welcome Kimberly Attwood, PT, DPT, FDN, and Clinical Director of IVY Rehab in Garner, NC, as a guest contributor! Very soon, you will see the first edition of Kim’s Corner as she shares with readers her insights into how we can show love to our bodies through the latest techniques for recovery!

In health –
Deidre

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Oatmeal by the Slice?

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Oatmeal by the slice?

Talk about seasonal foods!

While I long for okra to use in my famous grits-eggs-okra breakfast scramble, any I find in stores will have traveled far—picked before full ripeness and preserved to survive the journey.

Not great for flavor, nutrition, affordability, or sustainability.
Plus, the natural rhythm of seasonal foods supports our needs:

Summer produce tends to be hydrating and cooling.

Fall and winter foods are often more grounding and energy dense.

So, while our readers in the southern hemisphere are enjoying the bounty of summer foods, I am longing for warming soups and root vegetables – especially since ole man winter has decided to settle in for a spell.

We covered Hasselback Potatoes recently. Now, I want to try that technique on sweet potatoes!

But, on these chilly mornings, I am hearing the sirens of oatmeal calling once again.

Breakfast cereals by themselves, however, don’t hold me because of their carbohydrate hit. What could I do to ramp up the protein component?

While casually discussing my recipe with our editor, Sheree, I also mentioned I intentionally prepare more than needed so I can make a loaf of oatmeal to use later. What?

Sheree was mystified.

We’ll get back to that bit of magic in a minute.

First, for the current version of my vat of gruel, I can thank my disorganized pantry for allowing the can of Hershey’s cocoa to spontaneously eject from its perch to serve as inspiration!

Yes! Add cocoa to oatmeal!

What goes with cocoa? Peanut butter!

And so, it went … See the downloadable recipe for the details on how I ramped up the protein content.

The magic comes the following mornings when I don’t have to start from scratch for oatmeal because the leftover oatmeal was put into a loaf pan, covered, and refrigerated.

Did you know oatmeal holds its shape when cooled?

All that’s needed is to lift slices of now solid oatmeal out of the loaf pan and sauté them in a non-stick pan coated with butter.

Oh, yum!

Are you imaging your own version? Adding chopped nuts, dried fruits, fresh apples, applesauce, coconut?

Maybe ingredients will jump out of your cupboard for inspiration!
My next task is to own getting the pantry reorganized … aye, aye!

In health –

Deidre

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Chocolate Oatmeal with Peanut Butter – foodtalk4you.Download

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Pay Now – Avoid Later!

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Do you invest?

No, not the financial kind – the health kind.

Are you investing in your health?
Such as, are you investing in good shoes for your activities?

I just bought some walking shoes that are already providing great return on my money with increased comfort and support.

Some of us are investing in cleaner food by paying extra for organic produce.

My investment yesterday cost me no money, but it did cost me in time and with a certain level of discomfort. All totally worth it because it’s the first step in increasing the chances I will not get shingles.

You see, when I was only months old, I got chicken pox from my brother. Poor Mom. Stories of my projectile vomiting were what I remember her talking about above – and beyond the rash and sickness.

Since then, the varicella-zoster virus that caused the chicken pox has been living dormant in my nervous system, waiting for the right moment to flair up in a case of shingles.

What is the trigger that reactivates the virus, sending it along nerve pathways to the skin and producing that painful shingles rash, since not everyone who has had chickenpox develops shingles?

Most indicators point to a lowered immunity, especially as people age, and older adults are the ones who usually develop shingles.

In talking to those of all ages who have had shingles, there is often an association between an acute stress event and the initial symptoms. That stress element demonstrates to me how powerful our emotions are on our whole body.

Having watched my father-in-law suffer with shingles (after a major stressor) in his 90s, and who kept the nerve pain long after the painful rash healed, I made a beeline to the doctor while still in my 50s to get the single vaccine offered at that time.

Now, there’s a much more effective vaccine which comes in two doses: Shingrix. I got my first one yesterday. The second will be administered in 2-6 months.

At 91-97% effective against getting shingles, and 91% effective against nerve damage, this represents much better odds for me – compared to the 37-51% effectiveness of the old single shot I had years ago.

Many people will have no reaction to the vaccine other than maybe, tenderness at the injection site.

My reaction was more. My arm did get quite sore starting within a couple hours; and there was a general malaise with fatigue last night that continued into the morning.

After that, I am glad to say, I have walked over two miles today and my energy is inching toward normal.

While last night and this morning weren’t much fun, it was certainly well worth the investment.

I would recommend you not plan an activity or schedule an obligation immediately after getting the vaccine that day or the day after; but I would not hesitate getting it at all.

For more information about shingles and the Shingrix vaccines, read this and contact your health care provider sooner than later to assess the benefit of Shingrix for you.

Captaining my health –

Deidre

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Aye, Aye, Captain!

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It’s a verb.

An action verb.

Not like wishing or wanting but – DOING

We may want to be healthier, move more, learn more – but without the ACTION to back it up … those wants are nothing more than hot air.

It’s not the, WHAT we want to be or do – it’s the, HOW are we going to get from point A to point B in our plans? You know, stop talking and start showing by doing.

That’s why my word of the year is “captain.”

Not the noun. Not a person with a fancy cap and epaulettes.

The verb means to lead or command a team or group … or myself.

I am reminding myself to captain my boat – actively steering it with intention.

Rather than thinking of resolutions which often turn into wish lists, I am setting my intention on owning my role as “captain of my boat.”

I steer myself into calmer waters starting first thing each morning.

The pressure of the news media blowing up every day, and the import of the headlines, is affecting my very soul. I now reject diving into my phone or my emails first thing just to get the latest.

Rather, gazing out at the backyard view while I sip my coffee, helps ground me for the day ahead.

Seeking a sunny spot from a south-facing window calms and centers me like nothing else – a far better way to ease into the day.

Reading uplifting words from a print book – followed by personal thoughts and meditation – is a cherished tool for reaffirming my values.

There are personal projects that have needed my attention. Rather than saying I should do whatever, I am approaching the need with an ownership mindset – because, well, I do own it.

Whether the project is small, like drawers and closets that need tidying, or large – like managing finances, I am finding the inevitable delays that come from working with a ‘should’ mindset to a “where are we headed today, captain?” mindset is helping me get a lot more done.I leave you with one question.

What are you doing to encourage yourself to be intentional amid unsettling and uncertain energy from any source?

In health – Deidre

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Reflection

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What were your final moments of 2025 like?

Before all the hoop-la … before the bubbly … before the final 10-9-8- countdown …

I hope you took a few minutes for some reflection.

I was recently reminded reflection requires stillness.

Now, stillness seems to come at a premium these days, doesn’t it?

With our instant access to the barrage of news headlines, and as we conclude a season of rushing from one thing to another in our attempts to add special sparkle to each holiday event, we would do well to pause.

Let’s own being captain of our boats and steer to calmer waters where we can drop anchor and truly be still.

Ahhh …

Maybe light that candle I spoke of before …

Pull out your gratitude journal entries from 2025, or pour out a year’s worth of blessings from your blessings jar, to thoughtfully review, savor, and underscore your gratitude for the people, events, and things that touched your soul in a meaningful way.

Pause to evaluate where life has taken you this past year, and how you responded to those new circumstances.

Sure, there have been bumps along the way – but what did you learn; where will you improve, and how will you implement those improvements?

How did you feel when you felt at your best? How can you create more of that?

Give yourself some kudos for a job well done, values you honored, and ways you shined!

Rather than that proverbial list of resolutions, consider a Word of the Year, CAPTAIN, that contains one over-arching theme to guide your actions in 2026. Apply that one theme in all you do.

My job is done here – this reflective process is yours to do now – so I will let you have the space to do just that.

In health –
Deidre

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Welcome 2026 With Hasselback Taters!

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Sheree and I wish everyone a deeper sense of personal health, inner balance, and daily joy!

My Word of the Year is “Captain,” and I can hardly wait to paint my little sign to set up as a reminder. When I get that done, I’ll share with you how I will apply this one word.

Have you set your intention for 2026 yet? Let me know in the comments.

Okay!

New topic for the new year!

First, we conquered ‘spatchcocked,’ when we opened the turkey for a more even roasting process that yielded the juiciest meat ever for Thanksgiving.

It’s interesting to note that ‘spatchcock’ comes from 18th century Ireland and Britain. It seems it is a shortening or degradation of the phrase, “to dispatch the cock.”

Cock, meaning a rooster or young chicken.

Dispatch, meaning to prepare or cook it quickly – and, in my imagination, to grab the bird, put an end to it quickly and efficiently, and then prepare it.

Just saying.

In any case, we have DISPATCH + COCK, to become SPATCHCOCK – which perfectly describes how removing the backbone and flattening the bird will cook it faster and more evenly. Doing this was popular in the taverns of old to save time and was often done with chickens and small game birds.

Now, for today’s strange term, Hasselback baked potatoes!

No. Nobody is getting hassled.

Hasselback potatoes comes from a place name and a dish that was created there.

In the 1950s, a chef-in-training named Leif Elisson, developed this technique at the Hasselbaken Restaurant in Stockholm, Sweden.
Potatoes were thinly sliced – but not all the way – then baked until crispy on the outside and tender on the inside.

While being aware of this technique for years, I resisted doing it. I can only ask myself ‘why,’ because not only is it easy to do, but it’s a rip-roaring crowd pleaser!

Here are the steps for Hasselback Potatoes (Download Below):

Preheat oven to 425 degrees F.

Using a cutting board, place the potato between chopsticks, which will prevent the knife from completing the cuts. Make thin cuts – about 1/8 inch thick (a little less than 1/2 cm). Be mindful that the first cut or two may go through all the way depending upon the shape of the potato, so stop cutting at the ends before hitting the chopsticks.Melt a combination of butter and Extra Virgin Olive Oil to equal 2 tablespoons for two potatoes – along with salt, pepper, and seasoning of your choice. I like to add snipped chives or a herb mixture.

Brush half the oil on top of the two potatoes.

Bake uncovered in a baking dish for 30 minutes.

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That’s it! Serve and enjoy!

Visually appealing and oh, so yummy!

In health –

Deidre

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Throwing Sparkles in the Winter Snow

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A little sparkle here on that cookie.

A little sparkle there on that tree.

Holiday bling on earlobes, around necks, and attire.

We immerse ourselves in making so much feel, and look, extra special this time of year.

Is the doing of all this sparkle taking away from sitting back and enjoying it all?

So many of us say, “This year, it’s going to be different.”

But – is it ever?

Sigh.

We had a moment the other night, though, when after leisurely experiencing the sights and sounds in a local park with a large group of dear neighbor friends, we scattered in search of dinner.

Nine of us scored a large round table at a nearby eatery; and as I looked around, I was overwhelmed with a profound sense of gratitude for all the history, love, and special connections we had shared since our moving into this brand new community four years ago.

Now – those were some moments that went beyond sparkle and morphed into a deep soul-satisfying GLOW!

So, today’s short message is to enjoy the sparkle, and go for the GLOW!

In health –
Deidre

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Come In, Sit Down, and Let’s Have a Cuppa!

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My first experience with coffee happened when I was three or four years old.

Toddling around the house, I would happen upon a long forgotten cup of stone-cold coffee dregs my parents had left behind.

Just a sip or two was left.

Thinking I was doing something tantalizingly decadent, I would rescue those last sips! Tee-hee!

Eventually, I became a ‘legal’ drinker of coffee.

Fast forward to our post on 6 Sept 2022, where I shared about reading a comprehensive article concerning medicinal mushrooms – I’ve been on the lookout for ways to incorporate more varieties of cultivated mushrooms into my diet.

Wait! Weren’t we just talking about coffee?

Yes!

For years, I have been seeing all kinds of ads and articles about mushroom coffees that promises nerve calming benefits – coupled with mental clarity and no coffee jitters.

Earlier this year, I followed an article about mushroom coffee comparisons and roamed on the internet in search of the perfect purchase.

I went to the sites of several brands and was immediately turned off by “starter packages” linked to initial purchases that would automatically renew.

I just wanted to try their stuff. If I didn’t like it, I would have had to cancel a subscription. No thank you.

Finally, I found a brand that seemed to check all the boxes and wasn’t asking me to make a life commitment.

I tried it. I liked it. It was not hard to find them to reorder. Take that purveyors of subscriptions!

So, I am using Cuppa brand mushroom coffee. I am not saying this will be good for you and, I am not affiliated with Cuppa. We just use it to replace that second cup of coffee when we want more to drink.

Many people use Cuppa for all their coffee drinking.

Cuppa contains:

Coffee and Matcha for flavor, energy, and antioxidants.
Ashwagandha for anxiety and stress relief, and concentration.
Lion’s Mane for focus, mood, immune support, and brain health. Cordyceps for immune support, stamina, and anti-inflammatory support.
MCT/Fiber for energy, gut health, and to reduce jitters.
L-Theanine for stopping jitters, sleep support, and better focus.

Of late, I have needed something extra to warm me up as our temperatures drop outside, and my mug of Cuppa has filled the bill.
I can attest to no caffeine jitters.

Mental clarity and focus? Perhaps.

Improved immunity … I can’t say since I am already doing a lot of other things. Hey, I’m not sick.

There is some Arabica coffee in this mix; so for us, the flavor is not strange. It is different – but satisfying.

I have chosen to add a splash of creamer and just a pinch of Sugar in the Raw to the Cuppa powder, which I froth before adding the rest of the hot water.

Now, maybe Santa can get those Christmas cards created and mailed out soon!

In health – Deidre

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