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Aye, Aye, Captain!

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It’s a verb.

An action verb.

Not like wishing or wanting but – DOING

We may want to be healthier, move more, learn more – but without the ACTION to back it up … those wants are nothing more than hot air.

It’s not the, WHAT we want to be or do – it’s the, HOW are we going to get from point A to point B in our plans? You know, stop talking and start showing by doing.

That’s why my word of the year is “captain.”

Not the noun. Not a person with a fancy cap and epaulettes.

The verb means to lead or command a team or group … or myself.

I am reminding myself to captain my boat – actively steering it with intention.

Rather than thinking of resolutions which often turn into wish lists, I am setting my intention on owning my role as “captain of my boat.”

I steer myself into calmer waters starting first thing each morning.

The pressure of the news media blowing up every day, and the import of the headlines, is affecting my very soul. I now reject diving into my phone or my emails first thing just to get the latest.

Rather, gazing out at the backyard view while I sip my coffee, helps ground me for the day ahead.

Seeking a sunny spot from a south-facing window calms and centers me like nothing else – a far better way to ease into the day.

Reading uplifting words from a print book – followed by personal thoughts and meditation – is a cherished tool for reaffirming my values.

There are personal projects that have needed my attention. Rather than saying I should do whatever, I am approaching the need with an ownership mindset – because, well, I do own it.

Whether the project is small, like drawers and closets that need tidying, or large – like managing finances, I am finding the inevitable delays that come from working with a ‘should’ mindset to a “where are we headed today, captain?” mindset is helping me get a lot more done.I leave you with one question.

What are you doing to encourage yourself to be intentional amid unsettling and uncertain energy from any source?

In health – Deidre

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Longevity 5

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Deep Z’s

We rejoin our bewildered hero regarding her data showing subpar minutes spent each night in deep non-REM sleep.

What to do?

Something about sleep hygiene?

We’re not talking about cleaning up your dreams – we’re going to have a serious conversation about how we spend our time before going to bed and what our sleeping environment should be like.

Sleep experts agree that there are things we can do to optimize our chances for a good, restful sleep. Their suggestions all make sense but may necessitate change on our behalf from ingrained habits.

Change? I can feel resistance already!

Just keep an open mind and ask yourself, “Are we on the same team with our body or not?”

Do we want strong bones, muscles, and immune systems? Not getting enough good sleep may make us more prone to physical and mental health issues. Just saying.

For good sleep hygiene, it is recommended to:

Establish a regular sleep-wake schedule every day of the week. Avoid major swings in your routine on your days off.

Limit caffeine, alcohol, large meals, and strenuous exercise several hours before bed.

Keep your sleeping space dedicated to sleep and intimacy. Watching TV in bed, trains your brain to stay alert, not rest. Moving from a separate space for screen time to your sleeping space helps signal your brain that it’s time to sleep.

Ensure your sleeping space is dark, quiet, cool, and free from electronics.

Bedtime routines that relax you before sleep, also help signal the body sleep is coming. Switch off the TV thriller or stop scrolling social media at least 30 minutes prior to bed and relax with music or take a warm shower.

Blue light stimulates our brains into daytime alertness, so taking your eyes off the blue screen of any electronics helps the brain to realize it’s nighttime. Be sure to turn on your phone’s red-light filter well before your bedtime routine even begins – so if you accidentally look at it, it will not be as disruptive.

We control what we can because there are things we cannot control. Let’s keep in mind deep sleep tends to decrease with age, and sleeping disorders such as sleep apnea can reduce deep sleep.

While there is no way to make ourselves sleep deeper, we can increase our chances of sleeping well by making modifications such as these.

I’ve already activated the red light filter on my iPhone so I can turn that feature on after sunset. While the screen may be safer to look at, it’s not conducive to long looks, so my habit of random scrolling may painlessly disappear.

To activate the red light filter, follow these instructions:

How to set the red light filter-1Download

I have not gotten around to getting new blackout curtains for the bedroom since moving; but now, they are a priority.

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In health –

Deidre

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A Clean Slate For The New Year!

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When you think about it, the first of January is merely the day after December the 31st. While what we do is written on a new calendar, there isn’t a big tumultuous change. It’s just the next day.

Yet, we do feel like it’s a new start. Time to wipe the slate clean and start over.

That’s a good thing. So, let’s do it.

If we desire success in projects where there once was frustration and failure, let’s see what we can do to check off more victories.

As you ponder a few goals for the New Year, is there a voice in the background saying, “But it’s sooo hard! It’s going to take sooo much will power every day!”

No matter your goal, there will be daily dedication, discipline, and commitment – but things can be done to assure success.

I’m all about making jobs easier. The less you have to fight doing things the hard way, the better the chance you will succeed.  

The less effort needed to sort through lost or misplaced tools or equipment for your task, the more energy you will have to accomplish it.

Fewer distractions in your immediate environment mean you can more easily focus on the task at hand.

A favorite author of mine, James Clear, recently put it this way:

The more disciplined your environment is,

the less disciplined you need to be.

Don’t swim upstream.

If your goal for the new year is to eat better and maybe lose weight, then why challenge your self-control at every turn when your kitchen and refrigerator are filled with sugary, starchy junk food? Why put yourself through that?

When looking for an evening snack, why make yourself have to pass up on the kettle corn, the double fudge sandwich cookies, or snack-sized pizza bites before you grab an apple? Those items shouldn’t even be in your house if you are serious about improving your diet.

Save using your limited will power energy by removing the tempting distractions.

Be your own best friend by controlling your environment.

You want to write a best seller? Make a dedicated area, free of distractions, and commit to a small chunk of time every day.

You want to craft more or take up artwork? Create an area where needed supplies are always at hand and design your masterpiece.

Make 2021 the year you achieve your goals easier by controlling your environment.

In making health easier-

Deidre

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