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A child of Colorado, Delaware, Oregon, and California – where she obtained her first college degree and became a Nursing Home Administrator – Deidre Edwards now resides in North Carolina. While helping her husband start a video production business and raising their two children, Deidre returned to college to earn her nursing degree. A teacher at heart, she soon applied her nursing skills and knowledge to helping high school students expand their medical career interests through the Health Science Program she established. After retiring from teaching, Deidre wrote her first book – Toolkit for Wellness – as a response to the health issues she witnessed while working. She witnessed both students and staff had struggling with excess weight, diabetes, poor food choices, and stress issues – yet everyone shared the desire for a healthier life. Her easy-to-understand explanations of body functions and how foods break down, clearly show her passion for teaching others. Deidre’s dual passion in learning about habits and habit formation is expressed in her books and regular blog writings so others can learn how to make big improvements through daily small changes. Life took a dramatic turn when Deidre’s husband became confined to bed under Hospice care at home for over two years. With all of her nursing skills on board, and a deep love between them to sweeten the moments, she provided the loving, quality-of-life care he needed. Still the teacher at heart, Deidre realized there was a huge need to light the way for others as they walked the path of caregiving for a loved one. Hence, she wrote Toolkit for Caregivers and Love Lives Here, Toolkit for Caregiver Survival. Together, both books address the caregiving processes, skills, and issues for before, during, and afterward. Deidre continues to be involved with her community through choral singing groups, volunteering for the North Carolina Symphony, Chamber of Commerce, church functions, and activities with friends and family. She also enjoys the time she spends promoting her books and speaking with others about health and caregiving.

Easily Make Your New Year’s Goals Come True!

Maintaining exercise by carrying moving boxes was easily checked off last year as I made near-daily loops around my neighborhood to keep track of building progress on the new home.

Then lifting, shuffling, and sorting through 42 years of stuff at the old homestead was further enhanced by boxing, toting, and moving that which survived the great throw out.

Arms, legs, and back were all getting their workouts in 2022.

This year, with the moving-in process winding down, my arms need regular workouts. Time to keep my five-pound weights within easy reach for daily impromptu maintenance and strengthening moves.

How do you trigger doing regular exercise at home?

Just keeping my cute pink weights in plain sight and ready-to-use, usually does the trick. I’ve been known to keep them on the hearth in the living room so I can pick them up during commercial time when watching TV.

Some folks like using a habit-tracker like the one I offer as a download for my first book, Toolkit for Wellness. The entire download for that book can be accessed below and you can find the habit tracker on page 6.

Click on the GREEN DOWNLOAD button below to access!

I’m going to use the habit-tracker this month because I want the visual reward of little check marks adding up.

Whatever your method, let’s get back to some easy arm basics.

Remember to start out using light weights: 1, 2, 3, or 5 pound dumbbells – or use 8 ounce cans of soup or nothing at all. Sore muscles and complaining joints are motivators to abandon exercise, and that would be counterproductive, to say the least.

A little jazzy music helps if you aren’t doing this during a commercial break, and standing is a plus for me – but many of these moves can be done seated.

Whatever position you assume, remember to “pull the string” of symbolically pulling a string at the top of your head to straighten your spine and to get your ears-over-shoulders and shoulders-over-hips.

Pulling the string gets us in good body alignment for optimal movement with decreased chance for injury.

NOTE: I am not a strength or conditioning trainer – this is what I do – proceed using your own wisdom and the recommendations of your medical professional. If you experience pain or discomfort, stop.

Basic Curls

Standing straight, feet should-width apart, holding your light weights, start with straight arms hanging close to your body, and palms facing forward. Bend both elbows slowly lifting the weight toward your shoulders – but do not touch your shoulders. Pause, then return to starting position. Repeat 10-15 times.

I like to add a set of curls with my palms facing each other. Changing hands to facing inward also changes the name to hammer curl, but don’t sweat the labels. Just note how this may feel as different muscles are called into use.

Arm raises

Standing straight, feet shoulder-width apart, with arms hanging straight down at your sides, slowly raise weights out to your sides and up parallel to the floor and just slightly in front of you. You should be able to just see your hands in the periphery of your vision. Pause, and then slowly lower your arms to starting position. Repeat 10-15 times. Do not swing your arms up and down – the point is to move slowly with control.

A variation of basic arm raises is to do them while standing slightly bent at the waist. Try bending forward about 45 degrees, keeping back flat, hands with weights at the sides of your knees, and raising arms out to the side until parallel to the floor. Pause, and slowly lower to starting position.

Overhead triceps extensions

This exercise may be done either by holding a single weight with both hands, or by using a weight in each hand.

Standing straight, feet shoulder-width apart, press the weight/s up over your head until your arms are fully extended. Without moving your upper arms, lower the weight/s behind your head as far as comfortable. Pause, then bring the weight/s back up to straight up over your head. Repeat 10-15 times.

Punch the air

Standing straight with feet a little wider apart than shoulder width, hold weights chest height. Using alternate hands, punch out and slightly up like at a punching bag. Crouching slightly by bending the knees adds another exercise element as knees are bent and then straightened at the top of the punch. Repeat 10-15 times.

It’s basic exercise fare but can amazingly help strength and range of motion. Most importantly, it’s doable and repeatable.

Can you spell S-U-C-C-E-S-S?

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In health for 2023 –

Deidre

Let’s Celebrate With A Clean Slate for 2023!

During my final move out of storage and into my long-awaited new home in a new town, I was moved to take a picture of the empty storage unit before I left.

It’s empty – save for some broken glass.

Isn’t that what we all are looking at as we regard the past year? We’re moving on with whatever we are taking, and we are leaving behind the broken glass.

Well, we should be leaving behind the broken glass – maybe sweep it up so no one gets cut – but don’t start the new year with a pocket full of broken glass.

Admit our mistakes. Explore what we have learned from both mistakes and successes, and move forward with a clean slate to look for opportunities to flex our increased self-awareness and knowledge.

So, in these brief moments on the first Tuesday of January 2023, what pieces of broken glass are you willing to leave behind from 2022?

And what elements are you eager to take, nurture, and harvest for this new year?

This time last year, we were bundled up for the cold daily walks to gaze upon the bare hard ground where our new house would eventually stand. Each day’s steps brought us outdoors for exercise and anticipation – and were sprinkled with a healthy dose of patience as we longed for the breaking of ground.

When the weather warmed and progress on the new build was realized, we added sunscreen, water bottles, and shade hats to our warm weather attire – but the walking exercise continued.

Now moved in, realizing our dream, and using our new space, I am committed to taking the winter walks into the new year – making them a part of the fabric of our lives.

While every day represents fresh starts, certainly the new year marks a time to think about what we need to leave behind and what we want to take with us.

Happy 2023 to all our foodtalk4you readers! Remember to “do your body good” with each bite, each breath, and each movement.[

In health –

Deidre and Sheree

Joy to the World!

Peace, Hope, Love, and now JOY.

Have you found your peace? Have you discovered and explored it this month? Have you helped to create peace in your life, and have you shared it with others?

I hope so.

Oh, there’s that hope. There is a way. You can do this. We can do this. There is strength enough inside of you, and there is help and hope available from those around you.

Are you feeling love in more than one realm? The here and now kind and the other-worldly kind from those who have gone before?

As I think of those who are newly grieved, a sense of peace, hope, and love may seem a bit of a stretch right now. Experiencing that first holiday season without someone and all that it brings to grief can overwhelm.

The peace may look different this year – but it’s still peace.

The hope may seem to have evaporated – but look around. Your situation may be unwanted and different, but there is a new path that fits the new you. It’s there. Look for it and move toward it.

Love has no boundaries, and there is always room for new love. May we all take the love we have and the love we have experienced to grow MORE love – the opportunities and needs for love and expressions for love surround us.

As we take our peace, hope, and love out into the world, we will discover JOY.

Joy, I think, is contingent upon action – our action of reaching out to others with peace, hope, and love. It does not plop into our laps – joy requires our efforts.

Joy wants to be shared, too! Who sits around just being joyful? Sure, we have joy in our hearts, but doesn’t it just about leap out of our chests, begging to be spread around?

This is a great time for us all – especially if you find yourself feeling a little lack-luster as we close out the year – to pause and to ponder about small moments when you have found some peace, and hope, and love.

Jot each moment down on a small slip of paper; fold it and drop it into a jar. Every so often, add a short note about something positive – a blessing – to drop into your blessings jar.

On New Year’s Eve, one year from now, dump all your blessings out onto the table and read each one – and you will feel JOY!

Life is a series of tiny moments, and we often get stuck on all the negatives that have happened to us. But by being aware of the many small blessings that come our way, we realize that things are not that bad.

May there be abundant peace, hope, love, and joy for each of us, and may we reflect those feelings and mindsets in all that we do now and in the coming New Year.

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In health –

Deidre

Love is Everything

It’s the bottom line.

Everything else can and will fall away. We are left with this one thing. All our striving, our busy activities, our concerns, our vain imaginings – they disappear, and we are left with this one eternal element that is the sum of the Universe.

LOVE.

We need love on a cellular level. Take love away and we become twisted and tortured.

Some of us have mistakenly believed we do not deserve love – we are somehow less than, or we have caused so much harm, that we do not merit love.

But we were designed by love – if only by the power of Universal, love found in the miracle of Creation itself – and were designed to need and give love.

I’ve discovered that love has a handmaiden.

Grief.

When we love someone, we are committing to the grief that will surely follow when that love is taken from our physical presence.

If you have lost someone, the grief you feel is a testament to your love! That’s a big deal.

It makes loving someone an even more precious thing. What a gift!

“I love you fiercely even knowing that when we are physically separated, I will grieve and hurt – BUT it’s totally worth it and I freely do it!”

Moreover, that love never dies.

We may not realize it until we lose someone, but love is so much bigger than the here and now. Love exists on so many planes and in so many realms that we can barely understand it.

I think our souls must be a bundle of love light that when we are no longer here to hold or be held, we whisk away to be love on another dimension – and that the love we were burns brightly in the hearts and minds of our loved ones.

Love is light. Light gives peace and hope – they are all wrapped up together.

In this season of love, may we freely give and receive the love, peace and hope that is the ultimate force of change to ourselves, to others, and to the world.

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In health and love –

Deidre

Merry Christmas everyone!

Light of Hope

The flash of a newborn’s first smile.

The light of a candle in a darkened room.

That outreached hand being offered to pull you up.

There’s HOPE!

All is not lost.

Maybe you thought all was lost but a door or window just opened and there is a new way forward.

As the adage says, “Where there’s life, there’s hope.”

Hang in there, dear readers, there is hope for you – and for us all.

Let’s tear ourselves away from the headlines of chaos and insanity. Let’s light our one little personal candle and together we can create a bigger light – a light so big and bright that our surrounding neighborhoods will be illuminated with peace, hope, love, and joy.

Be the hope to your body as you offer it a fresh, home-cooked meal made with whole ingredients that don’t come from a can or package.

Create a series of hopeful actions by drinking one less cup of coffee or alcoholic beverage and add one more glass of water.

Take a 15 minute break and go for a walk – your body will be so happy that it may ask for more.

People are watching us. Whether we know it or not, each of us is the model and inspiration for someone else.

Who me? Yes. You. And you. And you.

By displaying hope to our own body/mind/spirit and in being that smile, light, and helping hand to others.

Let’s keep that light of hope burning.

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In health and hope –

Deidre

Let There Be Peace on Earth

As we approach this holiday season, there are several threads of sentiments woven throughout our common experiences that reflect and unite our diverse beliefs.

Today’s word is PEACE.

Sometimes said as a part of giving a blessing, “Peace I give to you …”

Sometimes given at the conclusion of a service of worship, “Peace be with you … and also to you.”

Something often wished for, “If I could only get a little peace around here!”

Sometimes it’s spoken as a plea, “Give peace a chance.”

So, amid holiday bustle, where do you find peace?

Are you open to receiving peace?

How do you create peace?

How do you give peace?

How does peace feel to you?

Often spoken about in conjunction with the word QUIET, we can imagine peace happening separate from noise and clamor.

I often think of peace, quiet, and wonder when first stepping out to view new fallen snow – especially at night.

Or that physical sensation that floats over me when I learn everything is going to be alright. It’s beyond plain relief, it’s a deep feeling of peace that defies description.

Then there’s the inexplicable peace that can come to us even when the news is bad – we just know that we have the strength to stay the course and we know that we will be okay.

Generally, I find peace in the common things. Nothing special needs to be happening. Maybe that’s peace and contentment?

Explore the role of peace in your life. Perhaps peace may come as you make and give peace away to others.

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In health and peace –

Deidre

Waiting for the Good Things to Come

Sometimes we just have to wait.

Our little ones are gearing up for a season of waiting as they bounce and wriggle with delight in anticipation, just thinking about presents and festive activities heading their way in the coming weeks.

We adults are the same about some things. While we have mastered waiting to open beautifully wrapped packages, there are other anticipations that tempt us, and we become impatient.

I’m feeling a bit frustrated with waiting right now.

You see, there’s a big project that I’ve been working on for months that was going to be revealed to you this very day, but some of the many moving parts of this multifaceted project are just not in place yet.

So, we wait.

The deadline was self-imposed. It will come together – when it’s ready – and the big reveal will be well done and helpful to those who need it.

A recent message from the daily thoughts I subscribe to by Amit Sood, focused on Gaining vs. Becoming, and has helped me gain patience in my delayed project.

His message urged listeners to consider the difference between gaining vs. becoming as they approached their life goals.

Some people focus on gaining wealth, position, or possessions at all costs as they go about their careers, whereas others focus on the kind of person they want to become while doing their work.

Sure, we all need to pay the rent and buy groceries, but what kind of person are we becoming while we do the necessary work? Is our work requiring us to become less than our optimal self?

His thoughtful words reminded me of a saying about people remembering not what we say to them, but how they were made to feel while we spoke to them.

The first time I ever heard that saying, I certainly felt a pinch. From then on, I have tried to model being a more thoughtful, considerate, compassionate, and understanding person.

We can still get the job done while taking a path that includes honoring what kind of person we want to become.

No one is ever done becoming. Each of us can modify what we work on to become – at any age.

What is the kind of person you want to become?

What are you going to do to become that person?

Take a moment as we anticipate the holidays. Light a candle. Bundle up and step outdoors to gaze at the stars. When all is said and done, what counts?

Become that.

And if you are impatient to get the results of last week’s word search puzzle, you can relax, because the results are posted under this!

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In health with gratitude and thanks to each of our readers –

Deidre

While the Feast is Cooking

A very popular post last year was our Thanksgiving Word Find puzzle. We designed it as a fun reminder of the key points in a year’s worth of information, and to provide quick links to review full articles.

So, based upon rave reviews, we present: The 2022 version of the Foodtalk4you Word Find Puzzle – use it as a helpful review, a conversation starter, or as something to while away the time when everything is in the oven because you do not want to watch football.

Let’s dive right in with a quick reminder about each selected prompt, along with the link back to the original post.

REFLECTION – On January 4, we start the New Year off with a now favorite activity: reflecting on a year’s worth of blessings. It’s one of the most rewarding things I do, and readers are joining the ranks each year.

LUNGE – One of those simple things we can do, even when there is not much time to devote to exercise. Take the plunge for a lunge as explained on this Jan. 11th post.

ELEPHANT – On Feb. 22nd, we explored how to get enormous projects done. If you feel like a tiny mouse being asked to eat an elephant – read this.

FLAX SEED – Flax and chia seeds are powerhouses in a tiny package. Check out this post on March 19 to see how to find a place for them in your diet.

LAUNDRY – From the science behind why warm water may do a better job and to what’s happening with fabric softeners, there’s lots to learn from this post on April 19.

RESILIENCE – What we all need more of. Take a couple minutes reviewing these simple options for coping and building resilience on May 22nd.

MINERALS – I hope you printed out the easy-to-read download of where to get potassium, calcium, sodium, and magnesium in simple everyday foods on June 7.

ZOOM – More than just a meeting method. On June 21st, we learned how to zoom out to get the big picture, and zoom in to get things done – we need to do both and to know when to do which.

BASIL BOATS – On July 19th, I shared my new take on fresh summertime tomato, basil, and mozzarella.

RELEASE – Allow yourself to open the prison doors of past trauma. Read the post from Oct 4th, to start your release today.

CHANGE – If we want different outcomes, what we put out to ourselves and to the universe must change first. Learn how to be willing to change in this post from October 11th.

WORD SWAP – Your mind believes what you tell it. Be nice in your self-talk. Do you want to be treated better? Be nice to yourself first. Learn how to turn around that self-talk in this post from Oct 18th.

BROTH – I took a short deep dive on Nov 1st, trying to tease out the difference between stock and broth. Just buy broth.

FROTHER – My favorite kitchen tool discovery this year. Discover what a frother can do for you in this post from Sept. 27th.

BREATHER – What activity do you do to de-stress in a way that gives you a breather? Discover options in the post from Sept. 20th.

RESTORE – Sometimes, a restorative activity is best to calm our jagged nerves. What you can do to restore yourself is also explored on Sept. 20th.

Hope you enjoy this year’s Foodtalk4you Word Find Puzzle. Offering it as a family/friend activity could start meaningful conversations about improved health with others in a non-threatening platform. We are all about starting helpful conversations and sharing good news with others.

Happy Thanksgiving! I am so thankful for each of you!


In health –

Deidre

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Cooking up a storm! 

Things happen in the kitchen around here. New recipes are born, some tweaked, some are made once and forgotten, some are made over and over, and some are shared. 

Let’s start with the spankin’ new baby of a recipe I made this morning for the second time – just to make sure it wasn’t an accident – and I even remembered to take a few pictures this time. 

As two well-ripened bananas stared at me begging to be used, I was trying to recall a recipe that used bananas to make pancakes.  

Couldn’t remember it. 

Meh. Never stopped me before. 

Pancakes don’t hold me long enough to eat just on their own. Nope – I need protein.  

How about getting all the needed protein, fiber, and potassium in the pancakes themselves?  

Done and done! Check this out: 

Almost Flourless Banana Nut PANCAKES

2 very ripe bananas – peeled, and smashed with a fork in a separate dish 

3 large/extra-large eggs – whip eggs in medium bowl using a wire whip.  

Then add the eggs: 

3 Tbs. whole flax seeds, freshly ground 

¼ cup almond flour 

¼ cup 1-to-1 gluten free baking flour 

Salt to taste 

Cinnamon to taste 

½ tsp. vanilla extract 

¼ tsp. baking powder 

¼ tsp. baking soda 

½ cup coarsely chopped nuts – pecans or walnuts work great 

Stir together and then add the mashed bananas. 

Ladle the pancake mixture on a griddle that has been coated with oil over medium heat and cook the pancakes.  

The sweetness in the bananas can cause rapid browning, so watch the timing and level of heat. 

We found these to be pretty yummy, naturally sweet, and not needing vast amounts of maple syrup to make them moist. 

This recipe was enough for two people with a couple of pancakes to spare. 

Anytime I can cook in advance, I’ll do it – especially as holiday events unfold – so today, in early November, I am prepping ingredients for my very popular Cranberry Sauce. Once made, this will be divided into smaller portions and frozen.  

I’ve shared this gem before with you, but thought it merited being seen again. People who avoid cranberry sauce often rave about this one and ask for the recipe – so, let’s get to it: 

CRANBERRY SAUCE 

This is not your normal Ocean Spray Cranberry Sauce which uses a full cup of sugar for each bag of cranberries. We use half that, and yet maintain sweetness levels through the addition of other healthy fruits.  

Ingredients 

2 – 12-ounce bags of fresh cranberries, rinsed and culled of soft berries  

1 pear, cored, peeled, and diced 

1 orange – cut rind off top and bottom, quarter, and thinly slice 

Secret Ingredient: RASPBERRY ESSENCE – method to follow 

¾ – 1 cup sugar – can be a combination of sugar and erythritol/monk fruit sugar equivalent 

¾ – 1 cup water 

Whole cloves – about 15 buds removed from cloves 

1 – 2 cinnamon sticks 

Dash of nutmeg 

Raspberry Essence Method 

Essence: In a small saucepan, gently cook 1 cup fresh raspberries with about 1 Tablespoon sugar and 1 -2 Tablespoons of water. Pour cooked berries into a strainer above the large pot being used for the cranberries. Using a silicone spatula, press raspberry pulp through the strainer. This takes a while. Press, scrape, press, scrape. The raspberry pulp will accumulate on the outside of the strainer – scrape off this essence into the big pot. Note: use a different silicone scraper to scrape the essence so seeds do not transfer. 

Add all remaining ingredients into the large pot and cook over medium heat. The berries will pop as they cook. Stir occasionally. When heated and bubbly, you can lower the temperature a bit and “smush” the berries against the pan to assist in popping. Continue to cook until ingredients meld into a thick sauce. Adjust for sweetness, if desired. 

Transfer into a serving or storage dish, remove cinnamon stick, and cool. The resulting sauce more closely resembles a jam. 

In addition to being offered as a colorful relish to accompany turkey, chicken, or pork, this sauce/jam can be spread on top of nut butters (almond is my favorite) as a twist on PB and J. 

We are making both recipes downloadable so you can keep them handy. 

Click Here for:  ALMOST FLOURLESS BANANA NUT PANCAKES

Click Here for: CRANBERRY SAUCE 

Eating healthy and staying in health through the holidays –  

Deidre  

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Just Five More Minutes!

Show of hands, please.

Who is starting to feel a little scattered with projects and obligations?

Me! Me! Me!

Wow! That’s a lot of hands going up. Mine included!

It’s time for a little course correction in my neck of the woods, and I am thinking that we may all need a renewed commitment for a calmer approach – especially as the holidays are upon us.

I mean – Black Friday sales started before Halloween … My social and travel calendar is filling up past January, now, and new commitments are hard to make because of life events happening. We’re all there, I’m sure.

Are you feeling like you are on a slippery slope and the details and enjoyment of the present moment may just slip by as well? Life’s too short. I want to enjoy the ride.

Who’s in control, here?

We know the answer to that question. Each of us are.

Join me in stopping this high speed merry-go-round as we reevaluate our expectations.

Breathe

Take a minute – although two minutes is proven to show a complete reset to calming down – and simply breathe. In and out. Eyes closed. Listen to your breathing sounds. Notice the rise and fall of your chest and abdomen. Breathe. Lean into the calm of your breath.

Prioritize

Take a minute to prioritize what is important to you. At the end of the day – what truly matters?

Life/death issues would be at the top. Keeping a roof over our head and food on the table would be next – so, yes, work issues must happen – but even those need to be prioritized.

If you are juggling a list of twenty must-do items like I am, a time of zooming out to look at the big picture of our lives is needed to see what can be shuffled off to other helping hands or can be delayed.

Commit

What is the least we can do to keep a certain project moving forward today? Rather than ignoring something we want to do, how about maintaining a minimal daily involvement?

No time for a workout? How about taking that needed break with a walk around the block? Maybe a minute of planks? We don’t have to leave our priorities in the dust just because there is not a big block of time to devote to them.

Think small and reward yourself with a check mark for having done something. Those little check marks provide a great sense of accomplishment and momentum.

That’s it.

In five minutes, my disjointed feelings of floundering are now erased, and I am on a smoother and truer course forward. Check marks are being made.

As they used to say on the commercials to Mikey, “Try it! You’ll like it!”

In health –

Deidre

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